What all can one THINK BEFORE ONE SPEAKS??

1. Have I heard it ALL from the other person?


2. What’s he / she looking for – a solution? Or is he just seeking acceptance, understanding or empathy?


3. Am I a master on the subject? Or do I have enough experience or credibility to add value?


4. Is the TIMING right? Should I say now or some later time.


5. Are my emotions in control? Or am I wanting to give back or show him his place?


6. Would I like to hear what I’m going to say to the other person? Would I like it? How would I feel?

With so many questions to answer, should we be in a hurry to answer back???